[HAIR] Ash Grey Lob

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[Outfit] Black Leather & Nike Jacquard Lunar Force 1

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Chinese New Year 2016

By on February 10, 2016

This year, I spent my first few hours of the Fire Monkey year at the Shuang Lin and Burmese temple.

As I was glancing at the zodiac chart on the temple walls, I was painfully reminded that according to the Chinese calendar, we are all one year older than our ‘actual’ age. This makes me 24. Which is hard to digest. I thought I celebrated my 21st last year.

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Immature VS Mature Love—Osho

By on November 11, 2014

“In fact, a mature person does not fall in love, he rises in love. The word ’fall’ is not right. Only immature people fall; they stumble and fall down in love.

Somehow they were managing and standing. They cannot manage and they cannot stand – they find a woman and they are gone, they find a man and they are gone.

They were always ready to fall on the ground and to creep. They don’t have the backbone, the spine; they don’t have that integrity to stand alone.

A mature person has the integrity to be alone. And when a mature person gives love, he gives without any strings attached to it: he simply gives.

And when a mature person gives love, he feels grateful that you have accepted his love, not vice versa.

He does not expect you to be thankful for it – no, not at all, he does not even need your thanks. He thanks you for accepting his love.

And when two mature persons are in love, one of the greatest paradoxes of life happens, one of the most beautiful phenomena: they are together and yet tremendously alone; they are together so much so that they are almost one.

But their oneness does not destroy their individuality, in fact, it enhances it: they become more individual.

Two mature persons in love help each other to become freer.

There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Just think about it.

Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity.

How can you think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality.

That’s why I call it the greatest paradox: they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still, in that oneness they are individuals. Their individualities are not effaced – they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.

Immature people falling in love destroy each other’s freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bondages.

And when love flows with freedom, there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.”

— Osho

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The Paradox of Our Age—Tenzin Gyatso

By on March 21, 2013

THE PARADOX OF OUR AGE

“We have bigger houses but smaller families;

more conveniences, but less time;

We have more degrees, but less sense;

more knowledge, but less judgement;

more experts, but more problems;

more medicines, but less healthiness;

We’ve been all the way to the moon and back,

but have trouble crossing the street to meet

the new neighbour.

We built more computers to hold more

information to produce more copies than ever,

but have less communication;

We have become long on quantity,

but short on quality.

These are the times of fast foods

but slow digestion;

Tall man but short character;

Steep profits but shallow relationships.

It’s a time when there is much in the window,

but nothing in the room.”

— Tenzin Gyatso, His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama

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